Can your handwriting reveal your compatibility with your partner, whether you are in a business or a romantic relationship?  Yes!

Are you thinking of going into business with someone?  Are you getting serious in a romantic relationship? Do you wonder how you will get along somewhere further down the line?  Do you wonder if you share the same values? What about reliability?  And then there is the question about strengths and weaknesses….yours and the other person’s.  What are the potential areas of conflict?  How does the other person deal with conflict?

With one in 2 marriages falling apart worldwide, with ‘irreconcilable differences’ the reason for the split or business partners losing everything because of the values or ethics of the other partner, it seems to me that the more you know about the other person, the more informed your decision before you make a commitment in any partnership.  Informed decisions allow one to decide whether to continue with the partnership.  Informed decisions also allow you to better understand the way your partner behaves the way he or she does.  Better understanding promotes tolerance.  Understanding the weaknesses of both allows one to be aware of potential conflict in or threats to the relationship, how each approaches it and allows you to find effective strategies to deal with potential conflict.

As a tool in the assessment of personality, handwriting analysis, pinpoints strengths and weaknesses in personality and character.  Handwriting analysis pinpoints how an individual deals with conflict….aggressively?, assertively? or passively?  Handwriting analysis also show the complimentary areas which partners can capitalise on to strengthen the relationship.

The highly skilled handwriting analyst (one who has had in-depth training which usually takes around 2 1/2 years and one who applies the higher order thinking skills of synthesis and integration), identifies the handwriting features most prevalent in the handwriting and examines how these features work as an integrated whole within that individual. No feature is taken in isolation and features in the handwriting which are considered need to be consistently observed throughout the writing and confirmed by other features conveying the same message, e.g., one i-dot missing or one letter ‘d’  looped, is disregarded as incidental.

Once each writing has been analysed in this way, the information for each writer is carefully compared to find the compatibility between the partners. Again, this requires of the handwriting analyst, a great deal of logical thinking and the ability to ‘connect the dots’.

If the handwriting analyst is a life coach or works with a life coach or psychologist, he or she can assist the partners to work on strategies to strengthen their compatibility.

Would these two, below be compatible?   At face value, you would probably say ‘no’. But as a handwriting analyst, one would approach the analysis objectively  and look at the differences between the personalities as presented by the handwriting, to see how they could be compatible.

Inhibited and insecure

Inhibited and insecure

Progressive, impatient

Progressive, impatient

Any handwriting analyst worth his or her salt, reports only on what has been observed, reserves judgement and does not give advice about the viability of the relationships.  That decision would be entirely and solely the prerogative of the writers of the handwriting.